Let me start off saying this post isn't aimed to anyone particular but to all guys who have strippers at their bachelor parties. 

I find interesting when guys who don't partake in the ritual of visiting a strip club all of sudden have strippers at their bachelor parties. Its like they are doing just because it is something they feel they have to do. I know I wouldn't want my future wife dancing around some half naked or naked men on the night before our wedding. Anything can go down when you are around beautiful naked ladies with all their focus on you. I know some guys think they are going out for some clean fun and then all of sudden the strippers pop out of nowhere. I'm not talking about that kind of situation but when the actual groom to be is planning all the festivities of his bachelor party.

Maybe its just me but when my time comes for me to get married I will be thinking about my wife and our wedding night. I was never the guy to hit up the strip clubs or run through tons of ladies so the idea of chilling with naked ladies I will only meet once doesn't float my boat. I just don't get it, all I can do is look, thats all. I'm sorry but I need more than to look and that's what I will have my wife for. Some guys tell their brides to be about the bachelor party and some don't. If you never surrounded yourself with strippers before what's the big deal to do it on the eve of your wedding?

The biggest reason why I don't condone these types of bachelor parties is my faith with God. I cannot say I am his follower and then knowingly go to a bachelor party with strippers. By no means am I a perfect person but this something that doesn't sit will with me. I have been to bachelor parties before but back then my faith isn't where it is today. I have changed, its baby steps but I'm trying. Recently this is something that has been on my heart and needed to write about it.